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Friday, September 25, 2009

Finally Friday...


Son2 finally missed the bus today... one of the things that the vice principal mentioned was that son2 was taking the wrong bus, all the kids do so they can ride with their friends... anyway he went to his correct bus stop this morning and it was leaving just as son2 was getting there, five minutes before it's scheduled time.... so hubby had to take him while I got me and son3 ready for work and school....
Work made me grumpy... so tired of being surrounded by children... new guy looked at his schedule wrong so he said and was three hours late to work, so I had to cover the floor all morning while opening boxes too.... next month we have some changes coming again that will effect the hours in a positive way so that will be a good thing...
Son2 ended up having a good day at school, getting lots of support from his friends on the loss of their two friends from the group...
I got home early today... spent some time talking with hubby, working on my 15 minute cleaning challenge for The Motivation Station and checking email on the computer... and picked up son3 from school...
We got Taco Bell for dinner and watched Bones and Supernatural... Now we're watching Smallville... also new tonight is Ghost Whisperer, Dollhouse and Numbers...
Now I'm tired and looking forward to sleeping in tomorrow and having a big egg breakfast... a trip to the grocery store with hubby and not sure what else...



Happy Journaling...



Color Carnival

To Play Visit Martha...



Getting ready for Halloween with all the goodies for the trick or treaters... lots of toys, candies, stickers, and pencils to go into goodie bags....

Happy Journaling...

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Everything on Thursday...


So I heard it was Fall, not that we would know as it's still in the 100's here... we're promised the 80's next week...
Today has been a whirlwind of a day...
Got son2 and hubby off to school and work and then got me and son3 ready for school and work... Did more homework this morning to make up for him being too tired last night... studied 6x, did I mention he passed his 5's, studied his spelling words and read his library book... Today his school had their Jogathon and his class had a movie party... He brought his pillow, a soda and popcorn... he brought the Disney Mulan movie but they watched Hannah Montana, he said he loved it, lol...
It was just me at work today til 3pm... I spent all day helping customers and opening boxes, made a bit of a dent in the pile that I am two weeks behind in... saw son1 before he started work at noon... I still see him every day at work even if it's just in the parking lot...
After lunch I got a phone call from son2's high school... remember his friend and then son2 is friend's with the girlfriend well seems son2 and friend got into an altercation after school yesterday that son2 did not tell us about and the others parents went to the school to report it... I support the school in their zero tolerance rule of fighting but also seems the school wants all three of them to never speak to each other again... felt like I was on the Jerry Springer show not that the school was giving any details but felt like they were more complaining about son2 being friends with the girlfriend than the issue at hand: fighting..... but son2 says his friendship with them had been ending anyway so he isn't hurt too much by it... makes it difficult with his group of friends however since some are still friends with friend... son2 says he had been making some new friends this year however so things are changing...
So got home from work, had long talk with son2 and hubby...
Poor son3 got his homework interrupted... so he got a late finish on homework... then hubby had to go to a meeting at work... fixed pot pies for me and son2, son3 had waffles... haven't seen son1, now that he's working and has money again, don't see him as much...
Got a package yesterday from UPS and one today of all the Halloween stuff I ordered... was wondering where the missing package was that the packing slip was in so was online researching not realizing that the third package was sitting on the porch as the UPS man had come a second time today...
Worked on my 15 minute challenge for the Motivation Station blog... you have to go The Motivation Station comments to see what that was...
Everything is on TV tonight... FlashForward, CSI, Supernatural, Bones and Fringe... I have two TV's taping but haven't figured out how the boys new digital TV's work while taping with the VCR as you have to change the TV to vid and then you get a blue screen for playing a VHS or DVD but haven't experimented to tape... so will have to watch CSI online... hopefully...
Someday I would like to get a DVR but not yet.....
Now just waiting for hubby to get back from his meeting... he and son1 both have a day off tomorrow... I have a short day and get off at 1:30... yay.... then we're all off on Saturday... Whatever shall we do.....
But first I have to find something colorful for the Color Carnival... hmmmm...

Happy Journaling....

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Wednesday



I'm even more tired today... so much for going to bed early last night... son3 was up til 1:30am with a tummy ache... he never did throw up... Then I was up at 6am to get son2 and hubby off to school and work... Son3 was up at 7am and got ready for school so I didn't question him... By 10am son1 was up and off to work... so I had three whole hours to myself today... woo hoo...
I did 8 loads of laundry including rugs and sheeets, ran the dishwasher twice, washed the kitchen and bathroom floor and watched an episode of Emergency online while I folded laundry...
Picked up son3 from school, he was dragging, saying he still had a tummy ache... Came home and coaxed him through homework with him falling asleep at one point... sent him to bed to take a nap and he was wide awake... hmmmm a minute ago you were falling asleep on your spelling... so after a half hour of him not sleeping I let him up...
Fixed him some raviolis for dinner, we had chili dogs and taquitos and now we are watching Battle for Terra which is ending actually...
Now it's time to clean up dinner, get showers and go to bed early tonight...
Glee, Criminal Minds and CSI NY come on tonight...






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Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Tired Tuesday...


I'm so tired this week...
Today at work we moved all the men's dress shoes around... took all day... I am so behind in opening boxes... they are piling up in receiving...
Before work I get son3 ready for school and we go over spelling words and flash cards for multiplication...
After work since I am getting off at 4 this week, I take over for hubby and finish homework with son3, make dinner, which was just leftover chicken today, check email, check my zoo on facebook, check on the motivation station blog, watch Castle from last night, work on my entry for motivation station, head the boys off to bed and now here I am in bed working on this entry... sink is still full of dishes, laundry to do, good thing I am off tomorrow... kitchen floor so needs washing... Holly is sitting here with me, well sleeping next to me... exhausted from her day of sleeping... sent the boys to bed early as there is nothing on TV Tuesday nights...
son1 just got home from work... he got a new battery for his car and then had to replace that one... he's thinking now he needs a new alternator... at least he finally got the tail lights replaced that were broken and the front one too...
son3 says he feels like he is going to throw up... too much pizza and chocolate cake this week I think... he says he is OK and back in bed... nope still moaning...
OK he is better now, got him all tucked back in bed....
Now off to tuck me in bed.....


Happy Journaling....

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Monday, September 21, 2009

Mild Monday


I'm feeling better today... I've reminded myself that the whole time son1 was moved out was the worst thing that could happen was that he moved back home... so he's back home and has a roof over his head and food to eat so everything else is up to him... it's just when he was moved out I didn't know what was going on and now I do to a point... I'm working on not reacting...
Today was good at work... I scanned for the display report for men's shoes and athletics... I reset all the displays to the correct way for the visit in mens and athletics... and opened boxes for about an hour but I am way behind on boxes...
Got home and helped son3 with homework and made dinner while hubby went to Cricket to get the laptop Internet, I am back on the laptop again...
And now I am watching The Big Bang Theory while waiting for Castle to come on...
Watched the Emmy's last night... It was ok but didn't recognize many of the shows that were winning...
Now I'm tired and thirsty.. gonna get a drink, watch Castle and go to sleep so we can do it all over again tomorrow...
Happy Journaling...

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Witchy Weekend



I am updating from the computer as I left my laptop on the TV tray when I went to work today, thinking well it will be OK.... no, son3 knocked over the TV tray and there went the laptop... the laptop is fine but my Cricket usb is not... so no Internet for the laptop until I go to Cricket... I came home and son2 said you are going to be mad... it's been my theme this weekend so he was ready... I said surprise me maybe it's bad news to him but good news to me, lol... but no it was the laptop... I'm not mad, not happy, but not mad as I knew I should have moved it back to it's regular spot... plus I'm kinda broken down from the weekend for any more reaction... or cause it wasn't a one more son1 thing that has been making me mad all weekend so I didn't react since it was partly my fault...
Anyway son1 is wearing me thin... every day it's something with him... something he needs, wants, don't even have words for all he does... he's very high maintenance... he's always going and doing... I'm tired, I just want to relax or get my stuff done and not always be about his stuff... how much stuff can he have to do... he has short term plans, not long term goals...
And everything he wants or does involves money and lately that is my money... He was moved out for two and a half years and I barely heard from him, three times that I know of to ask how to cook something... now he needs me for everything...
Thank goodness he has a job now... it's only part time but he does not have to pay rent or buy groceries... so I am cutting the apron strings once again... and the checkbook is closed...
Of course he doesn't know this as he is never here and when he is, he is not a talker, gets very defensive if the conversation is not going in his favor...
So anyway at least I still have the computer with Internet access... I'll just have to schedule my computer time when he is not here as it is in the room where he is staying...
I had planned on getting some cleaning done yesterday but I wasn't getting any where... I decided to steam clean the couch that son3 uses as a napkin and found that when son1 used my steam cleaner he didn't empty the dirty water, it stank....
Then hubby was working in the back yard but everything he was doing was because the dog had dug up something...
So anything we were doing was not for us...
So I sent hubby for pizzas and we watched True Lies last night... I love that movie!
Son2 was grounded for a bit yesterday too as his attitude has gotten worse since being around son1... Seems I'm not the grownup around here lately as the boys know everything and let me know it... son2 has been very hard on son3 lately also...
And I know I am rambling... so many thoughts going through my head about all this... being a mom, remembering what it was like to be a teenager... how rude teenagers are now a days and how much they think everything is no big deal... unless it's something they want of course... getting mad at myself for reacting to the emotions of the boys instead of the situation... knowing they have to make their own mistakes... knowing they won't understand any of our reasons until they are 40 yrs old, lol... so frustrating though when you try to tell them something that you know what you are talking about as we've all been there one time or another but no they know more.... argh............... and yet remembering our own parents trying to tell us and no we knew better, lol....
at least with son2 we are able to talk after the emotions are settled... son1 is not a talker... so poor son2 has been getting earfuls of things we want to talk with son1 about... we just tell son2 to learn from his brothers mistakes... he says he feels bad for son3 when he becomes a teenager... I said don't worry we will be out of money and probably dead by then from son1 and son2....
Hubby has been Halloween shopping... So we have been trying to look forward to Halloween... otherwise we've barely had a moment to ourselves between the boys and work... and yesterday was our day off...
Son1 is off today and not here... son2 is watching the 49er game and son3 is playing computer games...
I'm going to watch an episode of Emergency and update the checkbook, then go put away the mountain of laundry and then make pizza for dinner tonight...
Happy Journaling...