tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post3872964056602975573..comments2023-11-02T05:31:32.988-07:00Comments on Finding Footprints in the Sand: The Question...Linda :)http://www.blogger.com/profile/05158420612788989484noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-88580421695643935952008-11-10T18:54:00.000-08:002008-11-10T18:54:00.000-08:00The only other question I would ask is: If things ...The only other question I would ask is: If things get rough work wise with a Recession, who will be let go of first a lead or your normal scheduled person? (Hugs)IndigoSage Ravenwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17143502548162174269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-64348643091719366732008-11-10T18:52:00.000-08:002008-11-10T18:52:00.000-08:00Sounds out of you and your husband you tend to be ...Sounds out of you and your husband you tend to be the more responsible one. The way I look at it is this, the boys won't be young forever. Does that mean you miss out on them, or rather your beginning to realize you need to be prepared to start thinking of you in terms of how you spend the rest of your life. It's a catch 20 question, but yeah Hubby did kind of leave it in your lap. (Hugs)IndigoSage Ravenwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17143502548162174269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-7186249400491745962008-11-09T12:19:00.000-08:002008-11-09T12:19:00.000-08:00Never ask a man what he thinks you should do! He'l...Never ask a man what he thinks you should do! He'll never come out with a straight answer. I'm reading backwards here so I read you decision and I agree that you should wait till the kids are older. I couldn't take a position if it meant my vacation could be cancelled just like that.... I'd be too distraught and never get over it! Jeannette xxJeannettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18147761451905017460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-32017598178321715362008-11-09T01:08:00.000-08:002008-11-09T01:08:00.000-08:00Oh I'm sorry you ended up having to stay. I would ...Oh I'm sorry you ended up having to stay. I would be grumpy too. You had good right.<BR/>Nope don't do it son3 is still a baby and needs you around the house. I know you're letting son2 take on more responsibility, but unless you absolutely have to like moneywise or something I would stay as I am. Time spent with the kids is more important than any job outside the house, but that is just my feeling and I know that no everyone is lucky enough to be able to do that. Ah Hell you got time to grow up when the boys go off to college.<BR/>I was gonna ask if you've heard from son1 he's been no mention lately. I didn't know if it was a touchy subject or not. Hope everything is okay with him. You know no news is good news.. right?<BR/>I hate when they forget to give you something. I went a couple of weeks ago and they forgot my toilet paper. That's kinda an important thing around my house because if you know me I have a phobia of running out. If the roll gets to half way I have to have a new one. Kait says she can tell when I've been to her house because I'm to good to use the half roll that's out. I go looking for a brand new roll LOL. I'm silly I know.<BR/>Hugs, ChrissieChrissie a.k.a. HoneyBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00087363524200630349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-35204756241798884452008-11-08T13:55:00.000-08:002008-11-08T13:55:00.000-08:00Hmmm praying for you but will say this common know...Hmmm praying for you but will say this common knowledge. It seems like the more a woman works the more the family becomes dependent on her salary... making it harder for her to quit work. :( Maybe if you just wait on the Lord .. He will make something else available. My son needs a raise.. as a minister.. but yet if they give him a very low income he would feel responsible to stay even if he was given another preaching job with much higher raise. Waiting upon the Lord is so much better. Another question.. what is more important.. your children or the job that you may not like. Sorry if I seem harsh with the questions but they must be thought out. Love, hugs, and prayers, JanieJaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12315562698589795177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-40737243897582071952008-11-08T06:20:00.000-08:002008-11-08T06:20:00.000-08:00i was offered quite a few management positions whe...i was offered quite a few management positions when we went SC and i said no to all. I am 40 and make subs. Is that my passion? Nope. You read and know that my job makes me INSANE. But with this economy i do what i have to do. Do what your heart tells you to do...if being with Son3 and being there for him and you can still swing the bills, stay in shoes. If you REALLY deep down want that money and want to be a lead again, take the job. It is really really frustrating when the DH lets us down.lisa https://www.blogger.com/profile/07625835751678075313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-56775757070075449602008-11-07T21:09:00.000-08:002008-11-07T21:09:00.000-08:00I really like Martha's answer! It is a hard decisi...I really like Martha's answer! <BR/>It is a hard decision to make. <BR/>Hugs,<BR/>BarbaraBarbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09030825867999746517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-71295224690960101322008-11-07T20:59:00.000-08:002008-11-07T20:59:00.000-08:00I like Martha's answer; think you can sneak that o...I like Martha's answer; think you can sneak that one past your hubby?? (she's soo funny)<BR/><BR/>seriously, what a dilemma! but here's the thing; the kids are only young once; if you can get by working less hours to be more home with them, that's what I would do; you know you'll blink and son2 will be graduating from high school; it happens that fast<BR/><BR/>Pray about it; I know the Lord will lead you where he wants you and what is best for your family<BR/><BR/>hugs to you<BR/><BR/>bettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06323135450742337670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-23170367002564985492008-11-07T20:26:00.000-08:002008-11-07T20:26:00.000-08:00I hope you stay where you are happiest..things hav...I hope you stay where you are happiest..things have a way of working out.redpoppy007@aol.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125340089039733932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-46646147396666353802008-11-07T20:14:00.000-08:002008-11-07T20:14:00.000-08:00I am here delivering you some hugs. Give it to HIM...I am here delivering you some hugs. <BR/>Give it to HIM and HE will answer your dilemma.<BR/><BR/>Deegulfcoastdeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10534795347902743984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-62520827718360222632008-11-07T20:08:00.000-08:002008-11-07T20:08:00.000-08:00Praying wisdom and God's will for you dear!Praying wisdom and God's will for you dear!Barbara In Caneyheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06053601327400989802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-41701936062106490262008-11-07T18:42:00.001-08:002008-11-07T18:42:00.001-08:00I think you need to quit your job so you can be a ...I think you need to quit your job so you can be a atay at home mom and full time blogger - me too! Our husbands should get second jobs - high paying of course and our kids should do 100% percent of the housework and yard work to earn their computer time, cell phones, meals and a place to sleep. Our jobs will be to supervise all of them. Sound good? ;-)Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12500564300569765406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8097259353661066721.post-73865090805738213572008-11-07T18:42:00.000-08:002008-11-07T18:42:00.000-08:00If it isn't broke.....don't fix it. If you are hap...If it isn't broke.....don't fix it. If you are happy with your life as is and the hours you are worked.....leave it be. Just sayin/// :) BarbBarbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06455663203621483388noreply@blogger.com